FOR WOMEN: Join my FREE 7-day mini course to finally quiet that cruel voice in your head. Learn the exact techniques that help heal your realtionship with your body and food.
In just 7 days our goal is to free you from the mental prison of food and body obsession. By the end, you'll be able to have thoughts about your appearance without them controlling your mood, your choices, or your entire bloody day.
As a qualified personal trainer and certified mental health and nutrition coach, I've been working with overwhelmed women for nearly six years. Women who are holding everyone else together while falling apart themselves.
But a few years ago, I learned something...
The women who finally broke free from the mirror-avoidance and food guilt weren't the ones who completed a fat loss challenge, live on Herbalife, or use drugs (like I did). They're the ones who learn how to handle the noise in their heads.
They were the ones who'd learned a single skill that most people don't even know exists.
And once they had it? Life was more enjoyable.
They stopped hiding from photos at family gatherings. They walked past mirrors without that familiar punch of shame in their stomach. They ate dinner without mentally calculating calories or promising to "be good tomorrow."
The thing is, nobody else teaches this skill. Hell, most coaches have never even heard of it.
But after watching it transform loads of women who thought they were broken beyond repair, I thought I'd share it with you.
Body image flexibility.
I know, I know. Sounds like another wellness buzzword, right? It's not.
Body image flexibility is what happens when you can look in the mirror and feel... nothing. Not love, not hate. Just neutral. Like looking at a plant or a coffee cup.
It's when that brutal "I look awful" thought pops up while you're getting dressed, and instead of changing outfits six times and being late for work, you just think: "Yep, there it is again" and grab your keys.
Most women spend decades trying to change or love their bodies. But here's the thing nobody tells you: you don't need to love your reflection to stop hiding from it.
You just need to be flexible with the thoughts that come up when you see it.
Now that you're clear on what body image flexibility is… why is learning this skill such an effective way of breaking free from the scale obsession that's kept you stuck for years?
There are three reasons:
Reason 1: It deals with what's actually happening in your head.
Not some fantasy version where you wake up loving your thighs. Most approaches try to avoid or convince you that your negative thoughts aren't real. Body image flexibility says: "Yeah, you think you look awful. Now what?"
Reason 2: It works with whatever shite your brain is serving up today.
Not next week when you've lost five pounds. Not after you've done 30 days of affirmations. Right now, with the exact thoughts you're having while reading this.
Reason 3: Once you get flexible with body image thoughts, everything else gets easier.
The food guilt? The exercise punishment? The scale obsession? They all stem from the same place - that voice in your head that says your body is the enemy and needs to be fixed.
Change how you relate to that voice, and everything downstream changes too.
For years now, I've been teaching body image flexibility to clients inside my coaching program - SHIFT.
This is where women go from hiding in shapeless black clothes to wearing whatever they actually like (not because their body changed, but because they stopped letting their inner critic pick their wardrobe)
But for those who aren't yet ready to make that kind of commitment, or simply want to explore the world of body image flexibility, I'm offering something I have never done before
A brand new 7-day body image mini course (sorry to dissapoint with a fancy name)
In just 7 days, my goal is to accelerate the process of learning this crucial skill and take you from being controlled by your thoughts to the point where you can confidently handle whatever your mind throws at you.
Over 7 days, we'll tackle the scenarios that send most women straight into hiding mode - catching your reflection unexpectedly, getting dressed for a night out, or scrolling past old photos. You'll see how other women handled these moments, then learn my approach so you can spot what's missing from your toolkit.
I understand this struggle because I experienced it from age 13 to 30. As someone who's dealt with binge eating and alopecia, I get how your relationship with your body affects everything else, as I used steroids to mask my insecurities. Over six years, I've helped teachers, nurses, and overwhelmed women break free from the food-and-body prison they thought was permanent.
I feel like I’ve learnt a lot about myself this week and my eyes have been opened up to so much. Just by listening to what you’ve been saying throughout the week and also being in that group. I’m limiting my time on social media this from now on as I don’t feel like it’s good for my mental health. I have the apps but I have muted the notifications so that it won’t prompt me to go on them anymore. Honestly just feel like I’ve learnt so much this week
It’s amazing how I feel after 3 days , I mean I’m not cured but those little lessons have stuck. Instead of sitting watching tv I done today’s challenge and thought ok my body needs fresh air , a walk and I’ve tidied up. I’ve been nicer to myself the past 3 days just from reading what you say and its sticking with me.
I didn't realize how much I was avoiding mirrors until this week. I'd literally turn away or rush past them. Did today's exercise and actually looked at myself properly, without immediately finding stuff wrong me. Still working on it but that automatic criticism isn't as automatic anymore if that makes sense lol

Here's what we will cover over the next 7 days
Mental Radio (6 minutes) Learn to notice body thoughts without automatically turning up the volume. You'll discover you've been giving these thoughts way more power than they deserve.
Body Neutral Zone (5 minutes) Stop trying to love OR hate your body. We're going for something simple but effective: seeing it as neutral. Like a table. Or a car. Just there, doing its job.
Signal vs. Noise (7 minutes) Your body gives you signals (hungry, tired, need the toilet). The mental radio gives you noise (you're fat, everyone's staring). It's time to learn the difference.
What Really Matters (8 minutes) When you're 80, what do you think you'll remember? The size of your jeans or the memories you made? Let's reconnect with what actually matters to you.
Social Media Armor (10 minutes) Build resiliance to comparison triggers. Because scrolling Instagram shouldn't ruin your entire evening (but we both know it does).
Thank You, Next (6 minutes) Functional appreciation without the fake love. Your body does things. We're going to notice them without the forced positivity that makes you want to curl your toes and cringe.
Living Beyond the Mirror (8 minutes) Integration time. How to take these tools into your busy life so you can stop living in your head and start living in your life.

Wearing a bikini for the first time ever today, and guess what? No one died 😂 I feel so good in it! Why have I spent the first 29 years of my life in swimsuits?! Madness hahahah
Are exhausted from that constant mental chatter about their bodies
Want to stop avoiding photos, mirrors, and social situations
Attach their self worth and happiness to the scales
Turn to food when stressed or depressed
Most free challenges or courses promise you'll lose weight. This one promises something better - you'll stop thinking about your weight 24/7. The same peace-of-mind techniques that make my clients say "I can finally look in the mirror and not pick myself apart."
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